What does It Mean to Have a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mommy?

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Would you accept receiving gifts, money, or other benefits in exchange for the company?

What Is a Sugar Daddy or Mommy?

It is a person man or woman who is in a transactional sexual relationship with another person of minor age as an escort. They are intimate regularly and in return, they give gifts, money, trips and other things to maintain the relationship. It is a prior agreement and can last for a short or long time.

A Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mommy provides economic incentives in exchange for attention, company, affection and pleasure. Many people do not accept the label or that they hold this type of relationship.

Let Beauty Work

People tend to yearn for success in life as they did in our parents’ generation. Go to school. Work very hard, get promoted, and secure your retirement and pension plan. And then sit down to watch your grandchildren play. Sounds idyllic, doesn’t it? Life gives you a hand and you use what you have to get what you need.

But not all of us do it the same. How about people whose main interest, obviously, is money, so the main targets are older and wealthy men or women who can offer stability and cover financial needs.

Is It Modern Prostitution?

It sounds like a dirty job to people, especially to parents, which is why you would never tell them how you make a living. Because the first thing that would come to mind would be, prostitution.

However, this type of relationship is often confused with prostitution and it is not. Sometimes they function in a stable relationship. Sometimes, as a type of courtship.

Economic Agreement or Exploitation?

At the end of the day, it is a deal between two adults who agree to what they have discussed face to face, whether in terms of favors, company, money or product/s. And is there something to reproach them if each one receives what she wants, neither more nor less?

Just because it is not a normal and conventional relationship born of love and trust, does that make it something totally invalid?

To be fair, it is a relationship of trust, both parties must fulfill their end of the bargain in a respectful manner, just like in any other relationship.

However, there is the fact that it is one of the relationships that can most easily turn into exploitation, due to the power game that it implies. And almost always money and power prevail over beauty and youth. And the young end up in a situation where they are desperately trying to push themselves harder, to receive more and more favors from their ‘benefactors’.

Another possibility is when one of the parties simulates an emotional attachment, and feigns love, in order to continue benefiting from the deception.

Also see Is 30 Too Old to Be a Sugar Baby?

You Choose (but make it safe)

If you are interested in entering the world of sugar daddy or sugar mommy, what you should ask yourself is how it would make you feel and what future you would have in the long term. And above all, be careful, even if the sexual theme does not intervene (but honestly, it almost always does).

It’s not a terrible thing to want to have nice things, trips abroad and things like that. What really matters is what you are willing to do to get them, and if that makes you feel good.